Christians, why do you have such a fragile self esteem?

Seriously, many of you just cannot handle people who speak against your religion which is why you feel that you must report everyone who offends your puritanical sensibilities. If it was up to you censorship would be the law of the land and there would be no separation of church and state. I think it is due to the fact that you make Jesus Christ the centerpiece of your self esteem and when somebody attacks him they are attacking your self worth. Am I wrong?